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Use when attracting talented advisors or demonstrating respect for worthy individuals. Follows Zhou Gong's practice of interrupting meals and baths to receive scholars (一沐三握发, 一饭三吐哺) to prevent losing capable people.

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name: receiving-worthy-people-practice description: "Use when attracting talented advisors or demonstrating respect for worthy individuals. Follows Zhou Gong's practice of interrupting meals and baths to receive scholars (一沐三握发, 一饭三吐哺) to prevent losing capable people."

Receiving Worthy People Practice

Overview

Best practices for leaders to attract and retain talented individuals, exemplified by Zhou Gong's famous conduct.

Core Principle

Despite high status, treat worthy people with utmost respect and urgency.

Practices

  1. Interrupt Personal Activities

    • When a worthy person arrives during bathing: stop and grasp wet hair to receive them
    • When a worthy person arrives during meals: spit out food and rise to greet them
    • Repeat interruptions as many times as necessary
  2. Maintain Humility

    • Never let your position make you arrogant
    • Remember that losing talented people is a greater loss than personal comfort
  3. Warning Against Pride

    • Do not use your status or territory to look down on others
    • Those who are arrogant will lose the support of capable people

Expected Outcomes

  • Attraction of talented individuals to your cause
  • Reputation for respecting worthies
  • Stronger governance through capable advisors

Key Insight

"I am the son of King Wen, brother of King Wu, and uncle of King Cheng - my status in the world is not low. Yet I grasp my hair three times during one bath, and spit out food three times during one meal, rising to wait upon scholars, still fearing I might lose the worthy people of the world."

Validation

  1. Confirm that personal comfort is consistently interrupted when worthy individuals arrive — no worthy person is turned away for convenience
  2. Verify that humility is maintained regardless of the leader's status — arrogance toward visitors is absent
  3. Check the outcome: talented individuals are attracted to your cause and governance is strengthened by capable advisors
Install via CLI
npx skills add https://github.com/baojie/shiji-kb --skill receiving-worthy-people-practice
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